2. Because the Holy Spirit prepares people before we arrive
One of the greatest pressures in evangelism is the feeling that we must make something happen. We can assume that if we don’t explain everything clearly enough, or respond to every question well, then the opportunity has been wasted.
Scripture points us in a different direction. While we’re called to speak faithfully, only God can bring about real change in someone’s heart.
Jesus makes this clear when He says:
“No one can come to me unless the Father who sent me draws them” (John 6:44)
This means that in every conversation, there may already be a story unfolding that we cannot see. The woman reading her Bible at Marylebone was not starting from zero. God had already been at work in her life before I ever spoke to her.
At the same time, the Bible doesn’t minimise the reality of resistance. People don’t always respond because they prefer to remain in the dark rather than come into the light (John 3:19), and there’s also a spiritual blindness at work (2 Corinthians 4:4). Evangelism, then, is never just about exchanging ideas. It’s a spiritual work that requires spiritual dependence.
This is why prayer is not an optional extra. It’s central. When we pray, we’re asking God to do what we can’t – to open eyes, soften hearts, and bring understanding.
Understanding this reshapes our expectations. Our role isn’t to produce a result, but to be faithful, attentive, and dependent. God’s role is to transform.
Practical tip: Pray for the people you hope to speak with, asking God to show you where He’s already at work. Let that shape how you approach the conversation.
3. Because evangelism requires ongoing dependence, not a one-off moment
It’s possible to think of the Holy Spirit’s work mainly in terms of big moments – times of boldness, clarity, or unusual opportunity. Yet the New Testament consistently describes a pattern of ongoing dependence.
Paul’s instruction to “be filled with the Spirit” (Ephesians 5:18) carries the sense of something continuous. It’s not a one-time experience, but a way of life.
That’s particularly important in evangelism. No two conversations are the same, and we often find ourselves in situations we couldn’t have predicted. We need more than initial enthusiasm or past experience. We need present dependence.
There’s a well-known comment attributed to D. L. Moody. When asked why he needed to be filled with the Spirit so often, he replied, “Because I leak.” It’s a simple observation, but it captures something true about the Christian life. Left to ourselves, we drift.
Scripture describes this drift in relational terms. We’re warned not to grieve or quench the Spirit (Ephesians 4:30; 1 Thessalonians 5:19). In practice, that may look like neglecting holiness, becoming absorbed in the world around us, or failing to honour Jesus in the way we live. In our evangelism, it might look like defaulting to self-reliance, speaking before praying, or ignoring the quiet promptings we’ve been given.
Dependence on the Spirit, by contrast, keeps us attentive and close to Him. It shapes not only what we say, but how we listen, how we respond, and when we choose to speak. It reminds us that effectiveness in evangelism is not about our ability, but about God’s activity.
This ongoing reliance is not restrictive. It’s freeing. We’re no longer trying to control outcomes or carry responsibility that doesn’t belong to us. Instead, we take each moment as it comes, trusting the Spirit to lead and to work.
Practical tip: Build the habit of short, quiet prayers before and even during conversations, asking the Spirit to guide your words and your responses in real time.
The story at Marylebone is a simple one, but it points to a deeper truth. Evangelism is not first about creating opportunities, but about recognising and responding to what God is already doing.
Enthusiasm to share the gospel is a good and necessary thing. Yet it was never meant to stand on its own. From Pentecost onwards, the Church’s witness has always depended on the power and presence of the Holy Spirit.
He’s the one who helps us speak, prepares the hearts of those we meet, and sustains us in ongoing dependence.
So, as we step out to share the good news – in planned conversations or unexpected encounters – let us do so with confidence, not in ourselves, but in Him.