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Your friends want to talk about Jesus - three truths to fuel your confidence

Dr Rachel Jordan-Wolf

26 Jun 2025

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Hope Together's Rachel Jordan-Wolf tackles a common struggle in evangelism: the belief that no one’s interested in hearing about Jesus. She shares how we can move past discouragement and discover that people are more open than we think.

It was a Sunday evening and I was rushing to church when I noticed a man sitting in the outer alcove of the church window, sketching in a notepad.

I was running late, so I was pelting along the road. But something made me stop.
“Hey, what are you drawing? It’s a great spot isn’t it,” I said.
He smiled. “Yeah, it is.”

I said “By the way, you're kind of almost in church. If you want to, you could actually come in. The service is on, and we’d love for you to join us.”

To my surprise he said, “Oh you know, that’s really interesting. I’ll just finish my sketch.”

So, I sat on the steps while he finished, and we walked in together.

He told me he’d never been inside a church in his life. Not once. Before he left, I gave him a Gospel of Mark. He was flying back to Australia the next day and said he’d look for a church there. I was hoping the flight would be a great opportunity for him to read that Gospel!

Moments like this remind me: we often wait for the “right time,” but opportunities are everywhere – if we’re just willing to stop. Jesus was willing to be interrupted, and he was willing to interrupt. Are we?

A lot of Christians have the best of intentions – we don’t want to bother people. We believe that they probably don’t want to hear about Jesus.

But is this the truth?

The research paints a very different story.

The Research: People are open to the resurrected Jesus

I work as part of the team at Hope Together, a charity working for everyone everywhere to know Jesus. And part of our mission includes research to help us understand how we might do that best. And then we equip, resource and inspire local churches.

We joined up with many organisations to conduct some research called Talking Jesus and were amazed at the results.

It feels like in the church sometimes we tend to believe that as Christians we’re the odd ones out. We might get on the bus and think I’m the only Christian.

Talking Jesus turns that on its head.

When we think of the average non-Christian we might think of an atheist – but that’s on the decline.

In fact, a huge 44% of the UK believe, at least to some extent, in the resurrection of Jesus. Not just the crucifixion – the resurrection!

Now, some of those 16% believe word for word, absolutely rock solid. And this is higher in London, with 25% believing the word-for-word account as it says in the Bible.

And a further 28% of London say they believe part or most of the account – I call this people with the ‘wobble factor’.

Isn’t that amazing?

More people in London (53%) believe in the resurrection than people who don't believe in the resurrection.

Now, doesn't that just begin to change the game?

Wouldn't you like to be having a conversation with someone who believes in the resurrection, but isn't a hundred percent certain? Wouldn’t that change the way you start a conversation?

So how do we go about these conversations? Asking someone their thoughts on Jesus is a great start. “What do you think about Jesus?” “Who do you think Jesus is?”

And even people who don’t believe in the resurrection – a large portion of them would call Jesus a wise man, spiritual teacher or prophet.

We think often we’re starting from ground zero, that we’ve got to move people from complete atheism to Jesus. But people are often a lot closer to us than we think.

And research by other Christian organisations is confirming this truth, that people are often more open than we think to Jesus – such as the recent The Quiet Revival, from the Bible Society, and Finding Jesus from the Evangelical Alliance.

But...Rejection is Normal

That being said, rejection is normal.

If you start a conversation in the UK with a non-Christian, after that conversation, about 1 in 3 of those non-Christians say they would like to know more about Jesus. That’s still a really encouraging statistic. But it’s not everybody.

And it wasn't everyone when Jesus was alive or when the Apostle Paul went into towns. People have always rejected the message of the gospel, this shouldn’t deter us from sharing it.

You’ve just got to find the one. So rather than thinking, of how some people aren’t interested – let’s focus on finding the one that is. Because there are many.

Reminding ourselves of the truth

The media, our own experience, or the voice of the enemy can make us believe that sharing the gospel won’t be worthwhile. So, we need to constantly remind ourselves of the truth.

If you’re someone who’s been feeling “maybe people just aren’t interested in Jesus” – maybe you could quote one of these statistics to yourself before you head out for the day or start talking to someone on the bus, or your barista.

We have to renew our minds with the word of God.

Jesus said to his disciples, “The harvest is plentiful, but the labourers are few’ – Matthew 9:37

If I had just one encouragement for you today, it would be this.

Pray for five. Reach one.

If you would like to hear more on this topic, check out my episode of the Everyday Evangelism podcast - “Well, no none’s interested are they?”. We also had a further conversation about sharing the gospel with family members and friends – click here to watch or listen.

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Everyday Evangelism is our podcast series building up everyday Christians and churches for urban mission. In the latest series we're looking at the barriers we often face in sharing our faith, and how we can overcome them.


Written by: Dr Rachel Jordan-Wolf

Dr Rachel Jordan-Wolf is the executive director of HOPE Together - a Christian charity that brings churches together to transform communities by making Jesus known.

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